At work on Monday, all the rules of protocol that existed on Friday were gone. I pulled a couple of women together and said, "Whatever happens, we need to keep WILL -- Women's Initiatives Leading Lehman -- alive."
I've heard so many people say that they'll never let themselves be in that position again. They mean they're never going to define themselves by their job, and I think employee
commitment on Wall Street is never going to be the same. At the end of the day, it's you and your family.
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